The lounge scene is an equal opportunity party.
Don't let the emphasis on swank lead you to believe the decidedly blue collar, like polyester bowling shirts and waitress uniforms are out.
They are as IN as can be.
All #synthetic fabrics are worshipped, as are wild ties and #tacky accessories. Try a golf-tee lapel pin on a little square bed of astro-turf.
A strong sense of stylish #humor will get you through. Imagine what Seinfeld's Kramer might wear to a party and then you've got it.
Vintage #clothing stores yield everything a cocktail maven might need. Or raid your grandparents' closets for the perfect tie, handbag and jacket.