What was your childhood like?
What kind of family do you come from?
What was the discipline style in your family?
How did your family reward you?
How did they overcome conflict?
Was there any abusive behavior in your family? What kind?
What values do you want to bring from your family into our marriage? What do you want to be sure not to repeat?
What do you like and dislike about your family?
What do you like and dislike about my family?
Where do you think we will spend the holidays?
Who comes first, your spouse or your parent? Your spouse or your child?