Back in the early '00s, everyone in the Fairfield, Conn. region was eager to brag about their John Mayer connections. For instance, his father was my mother's high school principal. Cue the "It's a Small World" chorus. But when Mayer made mention of his racist body parts during that Playboy interview, Connecticut's favorite export went from fame to shame in the blink of an eye.
Now, with the impending release of his new studio album, "The Search for Everything" promises to be Mayer's remorseful reentry into the world of pop music. He regrets what he's said and done in recent years and he's ready to make amends. As he recently told The New York Times, his "GPS was shattered, just shattered" and he's prepared to right his course and redeem his reputation.
However, for those in the limelight, second chances aren't easy to come by, especially for someone who purposely went into self-induced exile to escape his own mouth.
Mayer told The Times that this attempt to reconnect with the pop scene reminds him of George Clooney. "There’s a guy who can make art house films and then just decide that he’s going to be in a blockbuster. I remember thinking to myself, O.K., I’m going to basically come out of retirement from blockbusters."
But even blockbusters can't become blockbusters if people aren't willing to forgive and forget. Fans of Mayer's music itself will be easy to win, but regaining the respect of the general public might not be quite that simple.
Does Mayer deserve this second chance? In short, yes.
While I certainly don't condone his actions, it'd be hypocritical to shun his comeback before he comes back. You see, it seems unfair that men have ample opportunity to recover from their misdeeds—see Robert Downey, Jr. and Hugh Grant for reference—while women, such as Lindsay Lohan, have found it more difficult to break from their bad girl image. But dismissing Mayer's seemingly earnest attempt would make me no better than those who shame women for far smaller offenses.
If Mayer truly means well, he should have no problem regaining the public's approval. But if he screws up again, there's no telling how vicious the media will be. He's treading that thin line between love and hate, but since I still love his early work so much, I'd hate to see his (or anyone's) potential go to waste.
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