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Mommy,you're hurting me..

Ксеня Тундавина
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Ксеня Тундавина
 Mommy,you're hurting me..

Many children beat parents?

You will be surprised, but almost every third child is beaten, every fourth child, brutally beaten.

Little kids who say,and if you do don't talk about it, it is likely that they will be closed. The people who are considered "freaks" , you say behind their backs nasty things and laugh at them. But not all people know that those who laugh at others, and is the part of aggressive people, disgruntled parents in childhood.

Many programs on TV are intended to show the bitterness of a violent relationship between child and parent.

I'm sure that every parent, in spite of the terrible plight of the child in the family on TV program, will feel sorry for him and condemn his cruel parents.It's true. But, once all weep over the grief on TV program, those mothers will get up from the sofa and will cry and beat their children no less. Few people know about the violence in their family. Because when neighbors or friends parents praise their child and kiss her on the forehead. But once the family is alone, the child is again exposed to violence. In the best case, the neighbors notice what's going on in the family, but there is a downside.

You cannot blame and punish the child severely for every little thing. You need to understand the children why something did not work , we need to help them overcome obstacles. And there is most often quite the opposite.To help the child is long and hard,to develop good habits and it's annoying the parents because everyone wants to see your child immediately perfect.But it does not happen.Most often children run a marathon alone,and their parents are after the finish line and shout at them and throw them "stones".Parents important result, it is important that the child was the first to reach the finish line no matter how it is difficult for children to overcome obstacles one and all this is pressed upon them,thereby exerting the most negative effect.No child wants to cross the "finish line", knowing that there are angry, screaming parents, who can always find what you criticize and never praise, because of your accomplishments it is never enough.

Please love your children,do not stand on the opposite side of the "finish line"and run this "marathon" with their children.You whole life