I am Jane and I want to say it upfront that I have accepted that I’m limited in my understanding that on certain topics and I have to depend on others to provide me with the voice of their community. While I can say I have deep compassion for them, I can only sympathize with what they’ve gone through. I read the story of Elisa and Ven which broke the Internet. I read her journey for years as she has lived in secrets, was scrutinized by tabloids for not adhering to the type of gender expression we expect of a biological male.