Endings aren’t easy for anyone. But no one really likes to give up. But sometimes you have to trust that for whatever reason, it did end because it had to. Sure, you can fight for it, push the other person into believing you’re different and that you want to change. But at the end of the day people are who they are and the fact is no one should have to change for anybody. We as humans, struggle with this concept in its entirety. We think oh well it would be just so perfect if only you could change this or that and the significant other is equally convincing. proclaiming that “they want to change…” but nobody really does change for another person… they will only ever change for themselves if they change for you. You can always tell because they hold resentments that you made them change and they are quick to tell you why it is your fault when you expected results they so willingly promised but didn’t deliver on. It’s your fault they still lie to you, or cheat on you or whatever they proclaim to change. I think that we would all be in healthier relationships if we were all strong enough to just stop at the first warning sign that this person may not be the best match. To have the strength to listen to your gut when it says something is wrong. #poetry
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